Monday, September 5, 2011

Just to let you know...

This morning I bullied my way through that post on the house dress, determined not to let on about what's really happening in my life.  Just now I sat down to scroll through some of the progress that others are making in their sewing, catching up on who's wearing what in September, and I realized that I really cannot concentrate on anything at the moment, much less leave comments, etc.  My heart is crying, because my father passed away last night, and I'm finding it difficult to even type this - somehow, when you write something like this, it actually makes it real, and at the moment - reality stinks.  So - I will do what I have to do, get through what needs to be done for the funeral, etc., and I apologize for not commenting and answering, though I will most probably be browsing on your blogs from time to time.  My father suffered for a long time.  He deserves to be at peace now, but somehow that doesn't make it any easier to accept the fact.
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23 comments:

  1. Jane MSeptember 5, 2011 at 5:58 PM

    Oh, Irene, my heart aches for you. You need a huge hug since I'm sure this is a sad, sad day. My father died suddenly eight years ago and I still miss him and can cry thinking about the loss. I imagine your father would want you to be gentle with yourself right now. Take time to mourn, to care and to take comfort from happier memories.

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  2. Peggy's ClosetSeptember 5, 2011 at 7:25 PM

    I am so sorry. What an awful time this must be for you. My thoughts are with you, and may your father rest in peace.

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  3. TexanSeptember 5, 2011 at 7:27 PM

    I am sorry for your loss. It takes time to deal with all the emotions for sure. I agree with Jane be gentle with yourself and allow yourself all the time you need.

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  4. SheilaSeptember 5, 2011 at 8:35 PM

    Losing a loved one is shattering, but his memory will keep you strong. Keeping you in my prayers.. Stay strong.

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  5. EllenSeptember 5, 2011 at 9:33 PM

    Irene, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. And commenting on blogs should be the least of your concerns. It is so hard to lose a parent.

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  6. JuliaSeptember 5, 2011 at 9:39 PM

    My heart goes out to you. I lost my mom nearly a year ago after watching her suffer for a long time. It isn't easy to let go, but knowing she's not suffering made it a little easier. I miss her, though. I am really sorry for your loss.

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  7. JanineSeptember 5, 2011 at 11:29 PM

    Deepest condolences - my father died 10 months ago and I still find it very hard to believe and still miss him terribly. However there is a light at the end of the tunnel called grief but it is a hard time. Best wishes.

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  8. CarolynSeptember 6, 2011 at 12:38 AM

    Dear Irene, I am sor sorry that you have lost your father. Please know that I am thinking of you, and sincerely hope that the next few weeks are not too difficult. Best wishes, Carolyn

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  9. shamsSeptember 6, 2011 at 1:28 AM

    I'm sorry for your loss, Irene. Of course you need some time.

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  10. GailSeptember 6, 2011 at 5:44 AM

    I am very sorry to hear that you've lost your father. I hope that you are able to honour his memory and cope with your grief. Thinking of you.

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  11. Lisette MSeptember 6, 2011 at 7:41 AM

    I'm so sorry to hear of your father's passing. I have been there and know that only time will lessen the intensity of your grief.
    My thougts are with you.

    Lisette

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  12. KarinSeptember 6, 2011 at 8:32 AM

    Oh Irene, I am so sorry for your loss. Of course commenting on blogs is not what you need to be doing right now. I am thinking of you.

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  13. gwensewsSeptember 6, 2011 at 9:13 AM

    So sorry. Losing some is difficult, but in time, will become more bearable. Blessings.

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  14. EugeniaSeptember 6, 2011 at 10:20 AM

    My condolences to you and all your family. I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.

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  15. MarySeptember 6, 2011 at 11:11 AM

    I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you, and your family, are in my thoughts. Do whatever you need to do in order to regain your equilibrium, and find comfort in simply being quiet. I send you strength....

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  16. ZuzanaSeptember 6, 2011 at 11:18 AM

    Dear Irene, I am very sorry for your loss - probably no words can make you feel better right now, but I hope that time will make it more bearable. I wish you and your family all the best.

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  17. LynnebSeptember 6, 2011 at 9:46 PM

    Oh, Irene. I am so sorry for your loss. My dad passed away a couple of years ago and it is a terrible heartbreak to loose your dad. I pray that you will find much peace, comfort and even joy in the days ahead. Know that you are in my prayers, and that we all look forward to hearing from you again.

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  18. MushyWearSeptember 7, 2011 at 5:13 AM

    Oh Irene, I am so sorry. I'll be thinking of and praying for you.

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  19. AnonymousSeptember 8, 2011 at 8:21 AM

    Irene, I'm so sorry to hear that news. Love and prayers for you as grieve for him. May the good memories of times with him come soon.

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  20. mamafioreSeptember 14, 2011 at 12:38 AM

    Irene may your good memories outweigh his last days, and that you find comfort with a smile. Heart felt sorry for you. You will be mentioned in my prayers tonight.

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  21. BrendaSeptember 16, 2011 at 3:16 AM

    My condolences to you, Irene, for your loss. My prayers are with you.

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  22. Pin QueenSeptember 16, 2011 at 12:56 PM

    So sorry to hear your news Irene. Our thoughts are with you and your family x

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  23. Sharon SewsOctober 15, 2011 at 11:24 PM

    I am so sorry for the loss of your father. And I must apologize for not leaving a note for you sooner. My heart breaks for you Irene. I'll pray for you and your family.

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